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    • #952 Score: 0
      caoyurui
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      在国外还是国内搭建社交圈都是大同小异的,首先你要开朗,第一印象给他人的一定要好,你要看起来好相处,为人和善,在除此见面时可以适当的夸人,适当准备一些礼物,其次,在后面的相处时你要学会主动和他人打招呼,主动做事,主动帮忙。这样你的社交圈就基本建立了。最后,你可以在你的社交圈中寻找一两位挚友

    • #1033 Score: 0
      Mengyu Zhang
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      搭建社交圈无论是和中国学生还是国际学生,留给他人的印象比较重要,在人与人的交往过程中情商表现得尤为关键。找到合适自己的社交圈是学习生活中的重要一环,也需要不断学习。但不适合自己的圈子也不必强融。
      Jarvis

    • #1077 Score: 0
      iveria
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      1 pt

      这是给留学生适应不同生活提供建议的一个网站https://kubasjourneys.com/tips-for-exchange-students/

    • #1590 Score: 0
      monoem
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      搭建社交圈需要我们自己自发的去与外国学生或者当地人进行沟通,积极主动是非常重要的,需要打破自我的舒适圈,不能自我封闭。主动和他人交流打招呼,最开始可以从讨论学校作业开始,若碰到共同的兴趣爱好时,还可以不断深入交流。其实与在国内搭建社交圈没有明显区别。(Norma)

    • #1601 Score: 0
      Doris
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      Yes, getting out of your confort zone is the first step. Don’t be shy. Your spoken English may be not good, but locals can still understand most of your words and hand gestures. Practice makes perfect. If you keep communicating with the locals, your English will be better, and you can get more friends.
      Doris

    • #1755 Score: 0
      Jammie
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      我之前有听别人推荐过一个论坛叫寄托天下, 是一个出国留学生互相分享经验的一个平台, 里面包括留学生活的各种注意事项, 签证方面问题的咨询等等的交流. 个人认为会对你们有所帮助.
      这是链接:http://www.gter.net/list-2-1.html
      by, Jammie

    • #1758 Score: 0
      Jammie
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      搭建社交圈的话我觉得可以从同班同学入手, 通过小组项目就有交流机会啦, 平时也可以一起学习互相帮助. 其次可以参加各种校内活动, 在活动中也能获得更多的与人接触的机会. 个人觉得交流刚开始可以从国家入手, 互相介绍自己的国家, 就能得到很多话题. 也可以和别人聊天气, 课程内容, 爱好等等. 随时记得保持一种乐观积极的态度, 别吝啬于夸别人, 也别忘了说谢谢. 最重要的是大胆和理解万岁, 有时候语法和读音并不会影响人与人的交流, 理解了意思就行.
      by, Jammie

    • #1806 Score: 0
      Gavin Fu
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      本身出国读书就是一种“孤独”的状态。如果在进行小组活动或者项目研究的时候能交到朋友是最好的。不论国籍和语言,三观一致性格相合的人都会成为朋友的。
      需要注意的是警惕莫名其妙加好友的人,其大多从事代写等非法工作并且向人套近乎。 –Gavin

    • #1822 Score: 0
      Yijie Zhang
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      2 pts

      我认为不同地区主流年轻人有不同的娱乐方式,比如clubbing算是非常主流的美国大学生娱乐活动,和几个外国朋友出去玩过几次,人家都是晚上8,9点问你出不出去,喝酒喝到12点还觉得太早还要再续摊的。然而像我这种痛恨club的人,实在是很难融入。

    • #1851 Score: 0
      Yimeng Zhao
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      1. Improve your oral English and be confident. Don’t be afraid to be ridiculed for your accent.
      2. Interest is a good starting for making friends. Develop your own interests and hobbies.
      3. Discuss questions with classmates.

    • #1860 Score: 0
      Aurora
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      个人觉得建立社交的方法是有共性的,无论是在国内还是国外。
      对性格不太外向的同学而言,建立社交最重要的一步就是“突破舒适区”,很多时候交集就是因为一方主动而产生的,如果想要扩大社交,更多时候需要自己迈出这一步,
      无论是主动找小伙伴一起参加活动还是做group work。
      (Aurora)

    • #1861 Score: 0
      Aurora
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      此外,在WKU,除了课程与国外接轨外,另外一大优势就是申研基数大,方便找到志同道合的朋友。
      在本科学校建立起的亲密关系往往可以在异国他乡提供更有力的支撑。(当然,留学生不能局限于自己的小圈子,仍然要敢于走出舒适区)
      许多学校都会提供留学生的交流群,预备出国前也可以在贴吧、知乎等地找找target school相同的小伙伴(社交平台也需要小心被骗)
      (Aurora)

    • #1916 Score: 0
      ChenningJin
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      先谈谈搭建浅层社交圈。大学都会有社团,建议报一两个体育类的。关于饮酒文化。新生周会有fresher week,每天晚上都会有不同主题的蹦迪。上课的时候,可以加同专业同学的facebook,以学业进度为由联络感情。
      Let’s talk about building a shallow social circle first. There will be clubs in universities, and it is recommended to apply for one or two sports. About drinking culture. The fresher week will be held during the freshman week, and there will be different themes every night. When in class, you can add the Facebook of the same professional classmates to connect with each other based on academic progress.

    • #1937 Score: 0
      Qiqi Zhu
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      个人觉得你可以先和身边的朋友相处好。当然你也可以参加一些party去认识更多的人。这是一个网址,告诉你如何经营一段关系。https://www.wilsonlearning.com/wlw/products/nss/zh

    • #2148 Score: 0
      Crystal
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      1 pt

      在国外建立自己的社交圈和在国内是不一样的, 因为国内外的生活方式,交往习惯不一样。 在美国,一定要变得更加外向,多去参加一些朋友的派对,不要显得太拘束,太腼腆,这会帮助你认识更多的人,也会让更多的人注意到你,和你做朋友。其次,我认为加强自己的语言沟通能力是最重要的,如果没有沟通能力,那社交圈也是很难建立起来,因为朋友和你在一起都不知道怎么和你交流。Building your own social circle abroad is not the same as in China, because the lifestyles and communication habits at home and abroad are different. In the U.S., you must become more outgoing and participate in more friends’ parties. Don’t be too restrained or shy. This will help you get to know more people, and will also make more people notice you and you. Secondly, I think that strengthening your language and communication skills is the most important thing. If you don’t have the ability to communicate, it’s difficult to establish a social circle because your friends don’t know how to communicate with you when stay with you. (Crystal)

    • #2381 Score: 0
      Iris__Zhou
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      a new environment, you can start with your own interests, so that you can make friends with whom you share hobbies. In this way, you will have more topics to discuss. In addition, participating in social gatherings is also very useful. Of course, for some introverted students, some relatively quiet book sharing sessions are also very interesting.
      https://www.inc.com/quora/10-simple-habits-that-will-noticeably-improve-your-social-skills.html
      Iris

    • #2413 Score: 0
      xuqing
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      首先,要培养外向开朗的性格,这可以帮助更好地适应那里的环境也更容易与他人交流。其次,作为外来人员,我们要先适应他们的习俗习惯,并与他人多沟通,建立起良好的人际关系。然后可以多多参与学校社团和一些与学生相关的活动,通过娱乐的方式结交朋友。
      xuqing

    • #2534 Score: 0
      Nina
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      When we stay abroad, building a social circle can help us integrate into foreign life more quickly. There are some strategies for us to build a social circle in foreign countries. First, we need to step out of our comfort zones and take the initiative to communicate with others. Through communication, we may find like-minded people and want to build close relationships with them. Second, participating in various campus activities actively can bring us into contact with more people. Third, it is important for us to enhance our communication skills. Having good communication skills will greatly help us build good relationships with others.

    • #2572 Score: 0

      I think we must first participate in more group activities to expand my friend range, so that I have the opportunity to meet more like-minded people. Secondly, we must boldly communicate with others and show our personality charm.

    • #2576 Score: 0
      Doris
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      My advice is that you can make friends with your classmates. They can be your teammates or someone who sits next to you.
      You can keep in touch with them by using some social apps such as WhatsApp and Snapchat. You can also post your pictures and your ideas on apps like Instagram and Facebook to let them know more about you.

    • #2578 Score: 0
      Doris
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      My advice is that you can make friends with your classmates. They can be your teammates or someone who sits next to you.
      You can keep in touch with them by using some social apps such as WhatsApp and Snapchat. You can also post your pictures and your ideas on apps like Instagram and Facebook to let them know more about you.

      Doris Zhou

    • #2700 Score: 0
      liziqi
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      First, you need to establish your social goals. For example, you want to seek help with your studies, you want to work on your social skills, or you want to practice speaking. Second, you need to learn more about social channels. For example, school clubs, school alumni associations, departmental activities, and school volunteer activities. Third, you should learn more about the local culture and be respectful when dealing with people. Additionally, do not feel inferior when interacting with others, keep being confident and proactive. -Libby

    • #2730 Score: 0
      zhmingzh
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      First of all, you should establish social goals, think about why you want to establish a social circle, what kind of social circle you want to enter, how do you get into this social circle, and how to establish a good social relationship after entering the ideal social circle. In fact, it is not easy to study and live in a foreign strange environment. Thinking about these problems can help you to clarify your own social orientation.

      zhmingzh

    • #2788 Score: 0
      Zhiyuan Huang
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      1 pt

      You can get to know some students from other countries through various activities organized by the international exchange center of the school. We can make full use of class time to communicate with foreign students in the research group or other countries in the Department, so as to diversify their interpersonal communication. There are always more or less differences between different cultures. If you don’t pay attention to these cultural differences, you may lose the chance to make friends inadvertently.

    • #2842 Score: 0
      zhangla
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      1 pt

      加入社团是个不错的选择。这里的活动会让我们有机会交到朋友并且是有相同兴趣爱好或共同话题的朋友。前提是我们要熟悉,理解并尊重他们的文化习惯。乐观开朗的性格和善于交流也是帮助我们交到朋友的因素之一。
      zhangla

    • #2843 Score: 0
      Janeeue111
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      哈哈,看到上面有人说clubbing算是非常主流的美国大学生娱乐活动,然而楼又主非常痛恨club,实在是很难融入。其实对于这些自己不感兴趣的领域,不去社交也没什么。我算是一个club狂热者吧,但我身边也有很多 不爱去的朋友。我不会强行要拉他们去,但他们同样对我重要。除了去club以外我们还有很多别的活动可以一起,所以不喜欢的话没必要强行融入啦。
      Janeeue111

    • #2874 Score: 0
      Winston Hu
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      可以多参加课外活动。
      很多学校都会提供社交舞会,尽可能参加就好。

    • #2929 Score: 0
      Jill Li
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      在国外的社交圈一直是我们热衷讨论的话题,现在大多数中国留学生出国后仍然只和中国人相处,我认为这样没什么问题,和谁相处是个人的权利,重要的是我们要明确在国外留学的初衷。所以不管是在国外还是国内,和人交往我们都应该保持自信,友善。
      但如果你想认识更多的local friends, my suggestion is that act like an American.作为一个曾经在美国体验过一个月当地生活的人,学会接受他们的生活方式,学会他们的表达,最重要的是理解他们的思维方式。很多时候你无法融入的原因就是,你没有get到对方为什么这样表达,那更深层次的原因就是思维方式了。Jill Li

    • #2969 Score: 0
      Ivy
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      全世界搭建社交圈的方式都是大同小异的
      但我们要注意各国的文化差异,理解并不去冒犯别人
      我们可以从同班同学入手,在同一节课的你们会有很多共同的话题,尝试着去交流就会发现这并不是那么难
      (Ivy Wang)

    • #2983 Score: 0
      peng yuanling
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      最简单的就是通过课堂的小组作业中,和其他学生建立社交联系。然后就是各种社团活动,学校节日等。主要是个人要主动。 peng yuanling

    • #3081 Score: 0
      Raychel
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      If you want to build a social circle as soon as possible while studying abroad, you first need foreign social software, so that you can communicate with others conveniently. Here are a few social software or websites I want to introduce:
      1.WhatsApp
      The role of whatsApp is similar to that of WeChat. It can instantly receive messages sent by relatives, friends and colleagues, and can switch from sending mobile phone text messages to using the WhatsApp program for free to send and receive messages, pictures, audio files, and video messages. It is easy to operate.
      2.Snapchat
      Snapchat is a photo sharing application. Users can take photos, record videos, add text and pictures, and send them to their friends.
      3.Reddit
      Reddit is a social news site where users (also called redditors) can browse and submit links to content or publish their own original posts or posts about user-submitted text.
      4.Quora
      Quora is a Q&A SNS website, also known as “Foreign Version Zhihu”. Like Zhihu, everyone can express their opinions on Quora.
      -Posted by Raychel

    • #3674 Score: 0
      Zihan Zhao
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      首先我们一定要积极主动地和别人交往,不要把自己封闭起来,尽量多的向别人展示我们的有点,比如我们有什么才艺(做饭好吃,会乐器,会画画等)这些都是可以让对方快速了解我们的方式。
      其次我们可以多参加课外活动,如团建,小组讨论等。

      Zhao Zihan Hannah

    • #3677 Score: 0
      Zihan Zhao
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      This is an example of an international student in California, I hope this is useful.
      https://www.sohu.com/a/157776522_527744
      Zhao Zihan

    • #3732 Score: 0
      Jammie
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      积极参与各类活动, 与上课时遇到的小组成员,学习伙伴保持友好关系,自然就会有自己的社交圈

    • #3954 Score: 0
      Charlotte Sun
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      28 pts

      Make friends in class. During the teamwork, find someone you like and ask them for having lunch together. Also, join in some clubs and meet people who have similar hobbies like you. Probably you have many common languages and are easier to become friends. Go out of your comfort zone and do not be afraid to make connections with people.
      在班里结交同学。在小组合作的时候,询问他们是否一起吃午餐。积极参与社团活动,因为有共同爱好的人有更多的共同语言,也更容易成为朋友。走出舒适圈,不要害怕与陌生人产生联系。

      https://www.livereconnected.com/articles/build-new-social-circle

      Charlotte Sun

    • #3966 Score: 2
      Corgi
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      38 pts

      -Build and maintain confidence.
      -Move out of your comfort zone. Try to start a conversation, join a conversation, join a party, etc.
      -Spend time on your hobbies and probably take up new ones. You may get to know people with same interests.
      Don’t feel too upset if there are problems or difficulties in building your social network abroad because it is just so hard! Don’t let the idea of “fit in” stress you too much. Start with small changes and attempts. Try to do it naturally with patience.
      Here’s a source of some tips that I found that might be helpful to building a social network abroad: https://takingtotheopenroad.com/moving-abroad-build-a-social-network/

      -树立自信,保持自信。
      -走出舒适区。试着开启对话,加入对话,参加聚会,等等。
      -在自己的兴趣爱好上花时间,也可以试着培养新的爱好。可能会遇到有共同爱好的朋友。
      不要太烦恼在国外建立社交圈的问题因为这真的对很多人来说都很难!尽量不要让“融入”的想法给你太多的压力。从小的改变和尝试做起。自然地,有耐心地去慢慢建立自己的社交圈。
      链接是一篇关于在国外建立社交圈的小建议的文章,也许会有帮助:https://takingtotheopenroad.com/moving-abroad-build-a-social-network/

      Yani

    • #4002 Score: 1
      Soleilin
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      20 pts

      Most students studying abroad are alone, and it is easy to feel lonely, so building a social circle will release your negative emotions. First of all, self-confidence is very important. Be confident when communicating with people and do not be afraid to chat in English. Secondly, learn to take the initiative and do not wait passively for others to come and chat with you. Of course, chat skills are also very important. Learn to listen and positive feedback. The most important thing is not to make yourself feel overly anxious about “making friends”.
      出国留学大多都是一个人,很容易感到孤独和无助,所以搭建社交圈会让你的负面情绪有所释放。首先,自信很重要,在与人沟通的时候要自信,不要害怕去用英语去聊天。其次,要学会主动,不要一直被动地等待别人来找你聊天。当然,聊天的技巧也十分重要,要学会倾听和积极地反馈。最重要的一点是不要让自己因为“交朋友”这个事情而感到过度焦虑。

      —-Soleilin

    • #4032 Score: 1
      Aimee Wang f
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      14 pts

      方法:
      1. 提升自己的语言实力,增强自信心
      2. 积极参与学校组织的活动,抱着一颗真诚开放的心多多接触外国朋友
      3. 了解当地的文化,并适应当地的文化差异
      4. 传播中国文化,结交来自世界各地的朋友
      5. 培养爱好,积极参与社团

      Methods.
      1. Improve your language strength and increase your self-confidence
      2. Participate actively in the activities organized by the school and meet more foreign friends with a sincere and open heart
      3. Understand the local culture and adapt to the local cultural differences
      4. Spread Chinese culture and make friends from all over the world
      5. Develop hobbies and actively participate in clubs

      -Aimee Wang f

    • #4051 Score: 0
      StephenMMM
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      1 pt

      As far as I know, it is difficult for people studying abroad to establish good social relationships with local students. Because of cultural differences, there are language and cultural differences between international students and local students, so the social circle of international students is basically among international students. Most international students are alone abroad, they also desire to have partners but they are also afraid of being deceived and hurt. Therefore, we need to take the initiative to propose ideas for making friends with people who you think have the same personality and interests. As long as you can take the first step, your friendship will be established.
      据我所知,出国留学的人很难与当地的学生建立良好的社交关系。因为文化的差异,留学生和当地的学生存在语言和文化的差异,所以留学生的社交圈基本就是在留学生之间。大多留学生都是一个人在国外,他们也渴望拥有伙伴但是他们也害怕受欺骗和伤害。所以我们需要主动和你觉得和你性格相合,兴趣相投的人提出交朋友的想法。只要你能够迈出第一步,你们的友情就建立了。

      StephenMMM

    • #4623 Score: 0
      Wan Sisi
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      17 pts

      It is difficult for students to establish good social relationships with local students for the difference of culture and language. I think the best way is to join in the club activities. we can meet the people with same interests in the same club, for example, if we join in the swimming club, we can not only make new friends but also improve our swimming skills.
      由于文化和语言的差异,学生很难与当地学生建立良好的社会关系。我认为最好的方法是参加俱乐部活动。我们可以在同一个俱乐部中结识志趣相投的人,例如,加入游泳俱乐部,我们不仅可以结交新朋友,而且可以提高我们的游泳技能
      –Wan Sisi(Celia)

    • #4661 Score: 0
      Bonnie
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      On purpose, try to strike up a conversation with a classmate, ask him to take you out, and get in with her.Make yourself at home. There are many pleasures in life besides reading.be brave!!!
      故意和同学搭讪,请他带你出去,和她在一起。别拘束。生活中除了读书还有许多乐趣。
      <hebei bonnie>

    • #4691 Score: 0
      Olivia
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      11 pts

      It is very important to establish a new social circle when studying abroad because your friends can make a person feel more belonging, and it can also help people better adapt to the new environment. Communicate with classmates and find suitable friends. At the same time, you can also find friends with the same interests through social networks.在国外留学时建立新的社交圈是很重要的,因为你的朋友可以让一个人更有归属感,同时这也可以帮助人们更好地适应新的环境。多和同班同学交流,寻找合适的朋友。同时你也可以通过社交网络寻找兴趣相同的朋友。

      Olivia

    • #4700 Score: 0
      Xilin Zhang Kelly
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      20 pts

      试着脱离你的舒适圈(来自同样国家的留学生),而去更多国家的同学发展友谊。你可以通过课上的小组任务认识新朋友,也可以积极参与社交活动。如果条件允许,你可以去参与别人在公寓举办的聚会,这也是认识新朋友的好方法。最重要的是,拔下你的手机电源,不要一直躺在床上看手机。

      Try to break away from your comfort zone (international students from the same country) and go to more countries to develop a friendship. You can meet new friends through group tasks in class or actively participate in social activities. If conditions permit, you can go to other people’s parties in the apartment, which is also an excellent way to meet new friends. Most importantly, unplug your phone and don’t keep lying in bed looking at it.

      https://www.gooverseas.com/blog/make-friends-study-abroad

      Xilin Zhang Kelly

    • #5174 Score: 0
      Amant_17
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      I have heard that there are many social circle of studying abroad and I think it is a good opportunity to join them to broaden the friend circle and discuss the life in the foreign country to dispel loneliness and also qickly integrate into the new environment. In addition to joining the international students exchange circle, you can also join the circle of friends of foreign students. The channels are work as a team and then get familiar to the teammates, or join the local club. A cheerful and tolerant personality can help you quickly integrate into your circle of friends.

      我听说有很多留学生交流圈,我人文这是个很好的机会拓宽朋友圈,讨论国外的学习生活来排解孤独感并且迅速适应新环境。除了加入留学社交圈之外,你也可以加入外籍学生的社交圈,途经是小组合作的过程中与组员熟悉,或者加入当地社团。一个开朗包容的性格能让你迅速融入朋友圈。

      Wang Jiayi Amber

    • #5322 Score: 0
      Yian Chen
      参与者

      When studying abroad, we need to go out of our comfort zone to make new friends. You can firstly chat with people who have the same major as you. All of you can speak on the same subject and share insights, and this may not involve inter-state issues. Don’t always stay in the dormitory doing homework. Sit in a library or cafe on campus to meet other students and complete work together. By studying with each other, you may not only do better, but you will also make some friends in the process.
      出国留学时,我们需要走出舒适区去结交新朋友。 您可以首先与与您具有相同专业的人聊天。 与您有同样吸引力的领域的其他人开始对话会比较容易,因为你们所有人都可以就同一主题演讲,分享见解,并且这可能不太会涉及到国家间问题。不要一直呆在学生宿舍里 做作业。坐在校园内的图书馆或咖啡馆与其他学生会面,一起完成工作。通过相互帮助和学习,您可能会做得更好,而且在此过程中将会结交一些朋友。
      Ann (Chen Yian)

    • #5404 Score: 0
      TianMiao
      参与者

      I want to recommend several ways to help you make more friends and build a social circle. The first is to join a school club, where you are more likely to meet like-minded friends, and the same hobbies can usually make people build friendships. The second point is to participate in alumni associations. Every university will hold alumni associations from time to time, and invite some successful alumni to share their experiences. The third point is that you can participate in more activities in the department. Every major in foreign universities will hold relatively large dances or parties during the semester and at the end of the semester. There are also small activities such as bbq and career expo. The fourth point is that you can participate in more volunteer services. Not only can you communicate with your peers, you can also have the opportunity to communicate with the people you serve.
      我想推荐几种途径去帮助你结交更多的朋友,搭建社交圈。第一是参加学校社团,在这里你更容易遇到志同道合的朋友,相同的兴趣爱好通常可以使人建立友谊。第二点是参加校友会,每个大学都会不定期办校友会,请来一些事业有成的校友分享经验。第三点是可以多参加系里的活动,国外大学每个专业都会在学期中和学期末的时候举办比较大型的舞会或者party,平时也会有bbq和career expo之类的小活动。第四点是可以多参加志愿者服务,你不仅能够和同行交流,还能有机会和你服务的对象交流。

      TianMiao

    • #5680 Score: 0
      Jessica
      参与者

      It is necessary to show yoru interests and advantages to others, and naturally attract people share same interest or people who want to get to know you. I view it as a positve way to build social network, through which you are able to gain the social network that is really useful to you.
      向别人展示你的兴趣和优势是必要的,自然地吸引和你有相同兴趣的人或想要了解你的人。我认为这是建立社交网络的一种积极方式,通过这种方式,你能够获得对你真正有用的社交网络。

      Jessica

    • #5845 Score: 0
      Yinuoz
      参与者

      https://baijiahao.baidu.com/s?id=1573888957893874&wfr=spider&for=pc
      出国留学的目的,不仅出了要提升自己的知识,在体验人生经验之外,还得融入当地文化,扩充自己的社交圈子,开拓眼界。不光要通过社团或是聚会活动跟同学扩展交际圈子,更要跟教授沟通交流。
      The purpose of studying abroad is not only to improve their knowledge, but also to integrate into the local culture, expand their social circle and broaden their horizons. We should not only expand the social circle with students through clubs or party activities, but also communicate with professors.
      yinuoz

    • #5896 Score: 0
      Xilin Zhang Kelly
      参与者
      20 pts

      搭建社交圈的方式其实与在国内时差别不大。除了加入组织社团,另一个方式就是与你的室友搞好关系。先成为他的朋友,通过他进入他的社交圈,从而找到更适合自己的朋友,并以此为契机,搭建自己的朋友圈。
      The way to build a social circle is not much different from at home. In addition to joining the organization, another way is to have a good relationship with your roommate. Try to become his friend, and through him into his social circle, find more suitable friends, and take this opportunity to build your circle of friends.
      Xilin Zhang Kelly

    • #5914 Score: 0
      Xx
      参与者

      Actively participate in group activities and focus on a common topic or interest with other students. In this kind of common activity, making friends often happens naturally, without deliberate feeling. Many of the best friends of international students are often met during campus activities. Spend time with your foreign friends. When you enter a new place, you will tend to catch people who are similar to you, so you will be more willing to stay with Chinese students. This is a safe choice and will make you feel comfortable. But you have to get out of this comfort zone and spend more time with friends abroad.
      积极参与集体活动,与其他学生一起围绕一个共同的话题或兴趣。在这种共同活动下,交朋友往往是顺其自然发生的,不会有刻意的感觉。许多国际生的最好的朋友往往就是在校园活动中认识的。花时间与你外国的朋友相处。当你进入一个新的地方,会倾向于地抓住那些与你相似的人,所以你会更愿意与中国学生待在一起,这是一种安全的选择,会让你感觉到舒适。但是你必须要走出这个舒适区,去花更多的时间和国外的朋友相处。

      —– Xx

    • #6041 Score: 0
      Jessica
      参与者

      Studying abroad is a once-in-a-lifetime experience; it is a challenging but amazing opportunity. This website shows suggestions to make friends while studying abroad.
      出国留学是一生一次的经历;这是一个极具挑战性但又极好的机会。这个网站提供了一些在留学期间交朋友的建议。

      5 Ways To Make Friends While Studying Abroad

      Jessica

    • #6529 Score: 0
      David_Lee
      参与者

      In my opinion, there are several ways to build a social circle abroad.First of all, you can start from your roommates or classmates who are in class with you, and then you can make more foreign friends through them.Secondly, I think we can make use of some foreign social media platforms, such as Twitter and Facebook.Look for people with similar interests and network.
      在国外搭建社交圈,我认为有以下的几种途径。首先是可以从自己身边的室友或者一起上课的同学开始,然后再通过他们认识更多的外国朋友。其次我认为可以利用一些国外的社交媒体平台,比如Twitter以及facebook。从上面寻找与自己有类似爱好的人,然后进行社交。
      David

    • #6561 Score: 0
      Jeff
      参与者

      我们和欧美同学说话的时候要直截了当,比如你自己的开心和不开心要直接说出来,这样他们就会知道你现在的心情好坏,你不要跟国内那样半遮半掩,那样没有人会知道你需要什么。
      We and European and American students to speak directly, such as your own happy and unhappy to speak out directly, so that they will know your mood is good or bad, you do not with the domestic half cover-up, so that no one will know what you need.
      -Jeff

    • #6562 Score: 0
      Jeff
      参与者

      When we make friends abroad, we should learn to respect and be compatible with the cultural customs of other countries, which is an important step for us to gain respect. You should know that the foreign people’s piety for their beliefs is different from ours, so you should understand and not interfere with their beliefs.
      我们在国外交朋友要学会尊重和兼容来自他们的文化习俗,这是我们获得尊重的重要一步,你要知道国外对于信仰的虔诚和我们是不一样的,所以你要理解,不能干涉他们的信仰。
      -Jeff

    • #6563 Score: 0
      Jeff
      参与者

      First of all, to be part of a group, one needs to understand not only the language they use but also their cultural traditions and daily habits.
      Example:Annabelle Liu, a Chinese student at Columbia University, said she was unable to keep up with her American ex-boyfriend’s esoteric questions. She also felt frustrated when he repeatedly asked her, “Do you know what I’m saying,” until she realized that “Do you know what I’m saying” is a very common colloquial expression in the United States.
      首先,想要融入一个群体,不仅要理解他们所使用的语言,也要理解他们的文化传统、日常习惯。哥伦比亚大学的中国学生Annabelle Liu提到她在听美国的前男友讲深奥的问题时有些跟不上,而当对方频繁地问她“Do you know what I’m saying”时更产生一种自己像一个白痴的挫败感,直到后来她才发现Do you know what I’m saying” 在美国是一种非常常见的口语表达。
      -Jeff

    • #6592 Score: 0
      Cheyanne
      参与者

      Integration is a process of accepting the cultural value of the region and establishing deep connections and mutual recognition with the people around in the continuous input and output of cultural information. To “fit in” with the locals, you need to be like a local, keeping abreast of the latest news and entertainment information, and knowing what they are concerned about on a daily basis.If you don’t understand the culture of your place, what’s going on in your school and in your city, you’ll always be an outsider and you’ll never be truly accepted by the locals.
      融入,是一个接受所在地区的文化价值,在不停的文化信息输入与输出中与周围的人建立深层联系和相互认可的过程。要“融入”当地人的圈子,就要求你要像一个当地人一样,及时了解最新的新闻娱乐资讯 ,知道他们日常遇到的关心的都是哪些事情。如果你不了解自己所在的地方的文化,不了解所在学校和城市正在发生着什么,那么你永远都是个局外人,永远无法让当地人去真正地接纳你。
      Cheyanne

    • #6743 Score: 0
      Evelyn Xia
      参与者

      According to my friends who study abroad, people who are outgoing and sociable can get to know a lot of friends quickly even when they go abroad. Language and communication are usually not obstacles. Even though they are separated by different cultures, they can always find common topics to communicate with, such as the movies they have watched, British and American TV series, and the stars they like. Most of the time, the same is true at home, we just lack the courage to take the initiative and fear that if we take the initiative, we won’t get a response. Therefore, if you really want to expand your social circle, take the opportunity to talk to every stranger you meet. You’ll meet someone who has something in common with you. At the same time, you can improve your communication skills and oral English. Moreover, effective communication is more important. Don’t participate in some meaningless or even torture activities for the sake of social communication. Find friends who really share the same interests with you.
      根据我在外留学的朋友所说,对于本身就性格开朗善于交际的人,即使到了国外也能够快速认识很多朋友,语言和沟通通常并不是障碍。即使相隔文化的差异,他们总能找到共同交流的话题,比如看过的电影,英剧,美剧,喜欢的明星。大部分时候,在国内也是一样,我们只是缺乏主动和人交流的勇气,害怕自己主动对话会无法得到回应。所以,如果真的想要拓展自己的社交圈,还是要抓住机会和身边遇到的每一位陌生人交流,你总会遇到有共同语言的人。在这同时还能够提高自己的交流能力,和口语水平。同时有效的交际更加重要,不要为了社交而参加一些对自己来说毫无意义甚至是折磨的活动,寻找真正和自己兴趣相投的朋友。
      Evelyn Xia

    • #6982 Score: 0
      Hu Haopeng
      参与者

      在读大学的留学生们,要好好利用orientation week, 去每个社团的摊位门口逛一逛,听听人家的介绍。不去尝试去接触新事物,就很难交到新朋友!还有更多的建议可以从这个网站上看得到:https://www.zhihu.com/question/361943542/answer/942888504
      International students in university should make good use of orientation week to stroll around the booths of each club and listen to other people’s introductions. Without trying to get in touch with new things, it will be difficult to make new friends. There are more suggestions can be seen from this website: https://www.zhihu.com/question/361943542/answer/942888504
      Hu Haopeng

    • #7130 Score: 0
      Bob
      参与者

      在国外搭建社交圈,最重要的就是突破自己的舒适区,去向别人展示自己,去和别人友好地打招呼。首先,你要和自己的房东搞好关系,从他(她)那里,你可以更加了解当地的文化习俗,了解公交站和超市在哪里。其次,在学校可以找到自己学习和生活上的伙伴,以及一些有相同兴趣的人(通过加入学校的社团)。

      To build a social circle abroad, the most important thing is to break through your comfort zone and show yourself to others, and also say hello to others. First of all, you should have a good relationship with your landlord. From him or her, you can have a better understanding of the local culture and customs, and know where is the bus station and where is the supermarket. Secondly, you can find your study and life partners in school, as well as some people with the same interests (by joining the school’s clubs).

      Bob

    • #7187 Score: 0
      Anona
      参与者

      Here’s what I think social channels are:
      1. School clubs. You’ll make many friends who have the same interests, and you’ll have a lot of things in common to talk about.
      2. School Alumni Association. By participating in the alumni association, you have the opportunity to meet people in the industry. What’s more, you can have a chance to communicate with your classmates from different majors.
      3. Professional large-scale events.
      4. Volunteer at school or in society.
      5. Get involved in outdoor activities.

      以下是我认为的社交渠道:
      1. 学校社团。你能够结交很多有共同兴趣爱好的朋友,并且你们有很多共同话题去交流。
      2. 学校校友会。在参与校友会的过程中,你能够拥有结识行业人才的机会。并且,你也能和来自不同专业的同学交流的机会。
      3. 专业举办的大型的活动。
      4. 学校或者社会志愿者活动。
      5. 户外活动。

      Anona

    • #7231 Score: 0
      jasminesun
      参与者

      I see that most students focus on how to build a circle of friends to make more friends, which I think is very important. However, as a graduate student, we should also actively build a circle of contacts related to work. For example, we can accumulate sufficient alumni resources through alumni groups; Actively participate in job fairs and company information fairs to get to know more HR, headhunters and company management; We can also actively communicate with professors and ask them to recommend us to excellent mentors in the industry, or recommend suitable internship and job opportunities. If we can make contact with more professionals in the society, we can not only listen to their advice on work and career development, but also get more information related to job opportunities. As an international student, perhaps the most effective way to do this is to actively take advantage of the career development services offered by your university.

      This is Boston University career services website: http://www.bu.edu/grad/cd-pd/career-preparation/. I hope this gives you a sense of how graduate schools offer career development services, especially in terms of networking and alumni.

      我看到大部分同学都重点关注如何搭建朋友圈来认识更多的朋友,我认为这非常重要,但是作为一名研究生,我们还应该积极搭建与工作相关的人脉圈。比如,我们可以通过校友群来积累充足的校友资源;积极参与招聘会、公司的宣讲会来认识更多的HR、猎头、公司管理层;我们也可以积极与教授交流,请求他们把我们推荐给行业内的优秀导师,或者推荐合适的实习、工作机会。如果我们可以跟更多的社会上的专业人士建立联系,我们一方面可以聆听他们在工作、职业发展方面的建议,另一方面也可以获取更多与工作机会相关的信息。作为留学生,也许最高效的方式是积极利用学校提供的职业发展服务。

      这是Boston University的职业发展服务网站:http://www.bu.edu/grad/cd-pd/career-preparation/。我希望通过这个例子,大家可以了解到研究生学校都会通过哪些途径提供职业发展服务,尤其是在拓宽人脉圈、积累校友资源方面的帮助。

      Jasmine Sun

    • #7945 Score: 0
      Ms.Marple
      参与者

      In my opinion, students who are not very outgoing or good at social contact can find friends in advance before going abroad. It is better that these friends will go to the same university with you or even have the same major. Many popular Chinese Internet platforms, such as Weibo and Zhihu, provides the special space for overseas students to communicate. As far as I know, even after adapting to a foreign environment, people in most cases still prefer to be around people from the same country. But meanwhile, I think it is very important to at least build a good relationship with professors and classmates. Your friends will bring you more sense of security, courage, and opportunities to meet new people. Besides this, learning and respecting other cultures is necessary.

      在我看来,不太外向或者不善于社交的学生可以在出国前提前找到朋友。最好这些朋友和你上同一所大学,甚至有相同的专业。许多受欢迎的中国互联网平台,如微博和知乎,为海外留学生提供了专门的交流空间。据我所知,即使在适应了外国环境之后,人们在大多数情况下还是喜欢和来自同一个国家的人相处。但同时,我认为至少与教授和同学建立良好的关系是非常重要的。你的朋友会给你带来更多的安全感、勇气和结识新朋友的机会。除此之外,学习和尊重其他文化是必要的。

      Marple

      • 该回复由Ms.Marple 于 8月、 1周前 修正。
    • #8132 Score: 0
      Kelly1028
      参与者

      In my opinion, there are several ways for us to build a circle of friends when studying abroad. First of all, we can make some friends before going abroad. For example, we can try to communicate with other students in our school and try to find some people who will study in surrounding places abroad. Then when we actually go abroad, we can connect them and gradually become friends with them. I think this is really helpful when we first go abroad because this will relieve our loneliness. Secondly, we can also make friends abroad in the graduate school. I think there are a lot of chances for us to meet new people, like in clubs, organizations, or even we can talk to people sit near us in class. Therefore, there are many ways to build a circle of friends, and we can try to go out and make more communications with others to enlarge our circle of friends.

      在我看来,有几种方法可以帮助我们在留学时建立社交圈。首先,我们可以在出国前交一些朋友。例如,我们可以试着和学校的其他同学交流,尝试找到一些同样会在周边地区学习的人。然后,当我们之后出国时,就可以联系他们,并逐渐和他们成为朋友。我认为这在我们第一次出国时会很有帮助,因为这可以缓解我们的孤独。其次,我们也可以在我们国外的研究生院校交朋友。我认为我们有很多机会认识新朋友,比如在一些俱乐部,组织,甚至我们可以在课堂上和坐在我们旁边的人聊天。因此,有很多方法来建立一个朋友圈,我们应该试着走出去,多与别人交流,扩大我们的社交圈。

      Kelly1028

    • #8175 Score: 0
      Qadira
      参与者

      In fact, I think this is very similar to building a social circle in China. First of all, you’d better get along with others outgoing, take the initiative to connect with others, and leave a good first impression on others. You can first contact other Chinese students. The same cultural background and academic experience may help you to establish a relationship faster. When dealing with local students, pay attention to the differences in your previous cultural background and habits, and don’t let the other person feel offended.

      事实上,我觉得这就与你在国内搭建社交圈很相似。首先,你最好要外向的与人相处,要主动与其他人产生联系,并给其他人留下较好的第一印象。你可以先与其他中国留学生进行联系,相同的文化背景以及学术经历也许将会帮助你们较快的建立起关系。在与本地学生来往时要注意你们之前的文化背景以及习惯的差异,不要让对方感到冒犯。

      Qadira

    • #8430 Score: 0
      Tanner Shan
      参与者

      Be honest with people and don’t be afraid to make friends with locals. In every country, there are sincere, introverted, extroverted, funny, reticent, don’t want to study, good students, and so on. It looks like we’re all different, but we’re all the same. I think with that mindset, believe you can find your best friends overseas. This link may be helpful. https://www.zhihu.com/question/361943542/answer/942888504

      对人真诚,不要怕和当地人交朋友。每个国家都有真诚的、内向的、外向的、搞笑的、沉默寡言的、不想学习的、学霸等各种人存在。看起来好像大家都不一样,其实大家都一样。我认为抱着这样的心态,相信你能够找到你在海外的好朋友。 这个链接或许对你有帮助。https://www.zhihu.com/question/361943542/answer/942888504

      Tanner Shan

    • #8670 Score: 0
      Chris
      参与者

      Where white is more commonly, we feel discriminated against, others may not be in discrimination, we could just some cultural conflicts, they may not be like us to do this, because it is not enough into the American culture, that it would seem also, on your heart that I have been discriminated against in fact this is just a equal to communication.
      一般在白人比较多的地方,我们觉得受到歧视,人家可能并不是在歧视我们,有可能只是一些文化的冲突,他们可能不太喜欢我们这样去做,因为它不够融入美国的文化,那你心里可能就会觉得我受到了歧视,其实这只是一个平等的去沟通。–Chris Sun
      https://baijiahao.baidu.com/s?id=1573888957893874&wfr=spider&for=pc

    • #8726 Score: 0
      YangYufan
      参与者

      In the process of building a circle of friends, it is very important to give people an impression. You need to be warm, kind, and easy to get along with. The most difficult step is to get out of the comfort zone and try to open the dialogue and join it. For some, this step is often the hardest. You have to make one friend first, then you can make more friends. Besides, you can also spend time on your hobbies. Since people with common interests are more likely to become friends.
      在搭建朋友圈的过程中,给人的留下的印象时十分重要的。你要热情,和善,看起来好相处。而最难的步骤是走出舒适区,去尝试着着开启对话,加入对话。对于一些人来说,这一步往往是最难的。首先你得交到一个朋友,然后你才能交到更多的朋友。其次你也可以花时间在自己的兴趣爱好上。有共同爱好的人更容易成为朋友。(Yang Yufan)

    • #9118 Score: 0
      yuchengz
      参与者

      首先,如果你考虑合租的话,你应该从寻找一个合适的室友开始。因为在国外,你的室友将会变成你前期的主要朋友。你们可以互相帮助。如果你们有个自己的朋友圈,你们也可以介绍给对方,从而扩大朋友圈。另外,对于其他朋友,你要做的第一点就是给他们留下一个良好的第一印象。
      First of all, if you are considering sharing, you should start by finding a suitable roommate. Because in foreign countries, your roommate will become your main friend in the early stage. You can help each other. If you have your own circle of friends, you can also introduce them to each other to expand your circle of friends. In addition, for other friends, the first thing you should do is to make a good first impression on them.

      Roy,Zhou

    • #9247 Score: 0
      ashrike
      参与者

      I think the relationship is important in our daily life, thus it’s vital for us to improve our circle of friends. It’s crucial for us to have a high-quality circle of friends. Good friends would help us overcome difficulties and share happiness when we are happy. Especially, when we are at abroad, we should find some good friends, because we know that we can’t meet our parents, friends are good for us to adjust our emotions. What’s more, we have an open opinion in making friends and be kind to treat others. In this case, we can make more friends.
      我认为人际关系在我们的日常生活中很重要,因此改善我们的朋友圈是至关重要的。拥有一个高质量的朋友圈对我们来说至关重要。好朋友会帮助我们克服困难,在我们快乐的时候分享快乐。特别是,当我们在国外的时候,我们应该找一些好朋友,因为我们知道我们不能见到我们的父母,朋友有利于我们调节我们的情绪。更重要的是,我们在交朋友时有开放的意见,友善地对待别人。这样的话,我们可以交到更多的朋友。
      ashrike

    • #9466 Score: 0
      wATER
      参与者

      In general, American students do like to make friends and are generally friendly to foreigners. With a large number of international students, American universities are more accepting of different countries and multiculturalism. Your language is not a problem, because your acceptance shows that you have a certain language foundation, and ordinary communication language is not too difficult. Make friends in the heart, not because of a certain purpose and deliberately to make friends.

      一般来说,美国学生的确很喜欢交朋友,对外国人也大都很友善。美国高校拥有众多国际学生,对不同国家和多元文化的接受度更高。你的语言并不是问题,因为你能够被学校录取说明你有一定的语言基础,并且平常的交流用语不会太难。交朋友贵在真心,不用因为某种目的而特意去交朋友。

      wATER

    • #9547 Score: 0
      wku1098132
      参与者

      One of the biggest challenges in studying abroad social interaction comes from the students themselves, and how to “say something” is crucial. From culture to history, from film to anime, you probably need to be involved in a variety of fields, and also have a deep interest in the field. You need to be interesting, and this applies to any social situation. Then, you can first try to open yourself up in the virtual network environment and establish contact with others. For example, through Instagram, Facebook, and other foreign social software to follow and get acquainted with people with similar interests, and then participate in offline activities such as salons and parties to get to know them more deeply.”Don’t be afraid to make grammar mistakes and express yourself with confidence, sometimes with some body language. In addition, you can also join some student clubs and participate in some volunteer activities. https://answers.microsoft.com/zh-hans/windows/forum/all/windows-10/c19cca52-9b8f-44e3-abfa-fbea7db68f48
      留学社交的最大难题来自于留学生本人,如何能够“有话说”很关键。从文化到历史,从电影到动漫,你可能需要各个领域都有所涉及,同时,也有自己感兴趣并深耕的领域。你需要成为一个有趣的人,这一点在任何社交场合都适用。然后,可以先尝试在虚拟的网络环境中打开自己,与他人建立联系。比如,通过Instagram、Facebook等国外社交软件关注、结实与自己兴趣相投的人,接着参与沙龙、聚会等线下活动,进行更深入的了解。“不要害怕犯语法错误,要自信地表达自己的观点,有时可以配合使用一些肢体语言。另外,还可以参加一些学生社团,参加一些志愿者活动。https://answers.microsoft.com/zh-hans/windows/forum/all/windows-10/c19cca52-9b8f-44e3-abfa-fbea7db68f48

    • #9669 Score: 0
      Olivia Su
      参与者

      When studying abroad, we have to socialize reasonably according to our own situation. Everyone has different personalities, so they have different social habits. At the same time, you must also pay attention to your own safety and be vigilant. 在外留学,我们要根据自身情况进行合理社交。每个人的性格不同所以在社交方面也有不同的习惯。同时,也要注意自身安全,有警惕性。
      Olivia Su

    • #9685 Score: 0

      Social media application may help you. You can chat with your friends in the apps. I prefer Whatsapp for communication with friends online. Here is the link for whatsapp: https://www.whatsapp.com/
      社交媒体应用可以帮助你。你可以在应用程序中与你的朋友聊天。我更喜欢用Whatsapp和朋友在线交流。以下是whatsapp的链接:https://www.whatsapp.com/
      Yichao William Wu

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